Well,this lovely morning. I would like to tell you guys about the 'Jealousy' feelings that we all have.

What the true meaning of jealousy is. Its a lie if I told you guys I never feel jealous at anyone right ? Everyone must have had this kind of feeling before or even now.

What is jealousy? Jealousy is a disposition in which we feel angry or unhappy we do not posses something that someone possesses or because someone we like or love shows interest in someone else. Jealousy is an undesirable emotion that can lead to a lot of unhappiness and even murder.

Jealousy over materials possession is quite common among people-young and old. Among youth, it can be simple things like an expensive pencil pouch, branded garments and flashy cars. They are the symbol of status, wealth and style and are much desired by youths. As a result,they are also a provocation of jealousy. The few who can afford them tend to be ostentatious while the many cannot afford them feel jealous. This feelings of jealousy can result in argument, quarrels and even fight.

The effects of jealousy can be harmful. Let us deal with jealousy among youths over material things like expensive possessions and designer garments.It is a fact of life that this is a materialistic world and youths with expensive possessions tends to show off so as to attract groovy company. It is a fact that some are born lucky ones. If they are jealous of others,they will only make themselves unhappy and in the process, make themselves unpleasant company in the presence of others and even their bosom buddies will gradually shy away from them.

How can an adolescent like us rid ourselves of feelings of jealousy? Among our friends and schoolmates, there are those who are wealthy and brainy. There are those who posses status symbols and attain stellar academic grades. We should open up ourselves and accept the reality of circumstances. Be modest. Have a good and sincere word of compliment for whatever is good and amazing. Do not wrap ourselves in petty jealousies. That way, we will feel happier with orselves and feel comfortable in the company of friends.

Jealousy is an insidious disposition. It is a natural streak in many of us and it can gradually harm our personality. It can be an obstacle that can holds us back from doing something good for ourselves. So,be positives in outlook. Be envious of others by all means but never be jealous as envy can turned into motivation to try harder in what ever we do.So,do not be jealous. Be envious, if you like. 

That all for today's update. I have had this kind of feelings so many time but Alhamdulillah I try as hard as I could to get rid of it and it turned out well. I'm pretty happy now. No more JEALOUS of others. I'm good enough and I will be better.

Assalamualaikum :)